Rachel Lowe Lambert Lloyd Mellon
aka
Bunny
aka
'The Queen of Green'
Bunny Mellon turned 100 years of age on August 9, 2010.
Photographed by Horst in 1965, Courtesy of Vogue
"Nothing Should Be Noticed. Nothing Should Be Noticed."
Mrs. Lambert said - saying it twice for emphasis - in one of her rare interviews to Sarah Booth Conroy of The New York Times in 1969. In her first bona fide interview, she told the reporter that she (Mrs. Mellon) only submitted herself to the interview because she was "tired of reading in the press all sorts of wrong things about the way we (I) live."
If Jacqueline Kennedy was a 20th-Century Icon, Surely Mrs. Mellon was Her Teacher.
As per our dear friends at Wikipedia, we (avid admirers) know Bunny Mellon to be "an American horticulturalist, gardener, philanthropist, fine arts collector, member of the International Best Dressed List, and thoroughbred racehorse owner/breeder". (Wikipedia.com, Rachel Lambert Mellon)
Throughout the second half of the 20th century, Mrs. Mellon was widely venerated as the epitome of good taste.
Few invitations were as coveted as those to the Mellon's 4,000 acre estate in Oak Springs Farms, in Upperville, Virginia, guests such as John and Jacqueline Kennedy, Queen Elizabeth, and Prince Charles (and, Bette Midler?) enjoyed the detailed perfection of Bunny's weekend get-togethers.
Discreet, Exquisite, Impeccable Taste.
Mrs. Mellon's entire wardrobe was created by Balenciaga until his retirement, at which point Givenchy took over. She had her own atelier in Maison Givenchy, where the couture house created every item for her from lingerie to tennis apparel, servant's uniforms to ball gowns.
with husband, Paul Mellon, in 1987.
In the late 1950s, Jackie Kennedy phoned her dear, new friend Bunny after a visit to Bunny's estate in Oak Springs Farms, in Upperville, Virginia and confessed, "I loved your house, but I don't like mine."
Bunny agreed to help the Senator's wife fix up her home and it was the beginning of a lasting and close relationship. Following are some of the projects and events Mrs. Mellon collaborated on with Mrs. Kennedy:
Decorating ideas (and financial contributions) White House, The Kennedy Years
The Rose Garden - The White House
Jacqueline Kennedy Garden - The White House
Flowers at the Capitol upon the President's Death
Caroline's Wedding in Hyannis Port
Gardens at Mrs Onassis' Summer Home on Martha's Vineyard
Gardens at Kennedy Library in Boston
Funerals of Jackie and John junior.
* Not to mention - the gardens for her dear friend Hubert de Givenchy's French country Estate.
Monsieur Givenchy is quoted describing his (Bunny designed) garden as, "delicate pieces of embroidery."
For a 'Blogger' (moi) doing due diligence on actual 'Reporters' writing real articles about Mrs. Mellon and her 100th birthday, all I can find is articles filled with catch phrases from Mrs. Mellon's friends such as . . .
"No comment."
"I don't remember."
"I'll call you back."
Apparently, Mrs. Mellon's BFFs are just as private as she is, ha ha.
"She (Bunny) is seldom seen on the party circuit, the world came to her, not the other way around." - said Ms. Bedell Smith, a Washington, D.C. based writer.
"If She (Bunny) were to show up at a glitzy New York party today, most people wouldn't know who she is, but in what passes for society in New York today, Bunny Mellon stands apart and alone." - David Columbia, Newyorksocialdiary.com
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The Second Bona Fide Interview Bunny Mellon Ever Gave Came 41 Years Later.
As the article's writer James Reginato confesses, he had waited "nearly his entire career" for this interview. "It's almost like the Holy Grail for journalists who cover society and design."
The V.F. magazine article begins with an invitation over the phone from Mrs. Mellon to the article's author, Mr. R. to come and visit the legendary gardens of Oak Springs Farms.
"Monday I'm planning my funeral, and Tuesday I've got Bette Midler. Come Wednesday at 11:30." Mrs. Mellon cheerfully states.
Vanity Fair Magazine, August 2010
Photographs by Jonathan Becker
Article for V.F. Written By: James Reginato

Mellon, photographed by Henri Cartier-Bresson in her Oak Spring Garden.
The greenhouse at Oaks Spring would not be out of place at Versailles. Trompe l'oeil murals by Fernand Renard.
An arbor of pleached Mary Potter crab-apple trees leads to the garden entrance.
A bronze rabbit by sculptor Jane Canfield perches atop the garden gate.
A teahouse with reflecting pool.

A quiet corner of the garden
A birdhouse and pots of citrus.

Mellon's vegetable garden.
One mile long airstrip to accommodate Falcon 2000 (not seen in photograph).
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When I read articles about legendary women such as Bunny Mellon, I sadly realize that such grace, fortitude, and style might just be part of an era that America is no longer interested in.
Young Women Today Pride Themselves on How Modern They Are, and How Open They Are to the Times.
Angelina Jolie and her, ahem, tattoo for Brad
(As seen in same month's Vanity Fair issue)
When asked in a separate interview about her obvious new inner-thigh tattoo, Angie coyly replied, "Um, it's for Brad."
Jennifer Aniston and her desperate need to keep emphasizing that - 'Yes, she would like to have children, someday,' through her latest movie, The Switch, where she not only played the lead, but also served as the movie's executive producer.
Hanna Montana and her not so discreet shout out (and earful) to boyfriend - Inked: June 16th.
Relationship Defunct: August 28th.
Whatever!!!
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I Just Can't Believe What T.V. and Pop Culture Has Done to Our Sensibilities.
Keeping Up with the Kardashians- Season Premiere, August 23rd, 2010- 4.7 million viewers
Housewives - The Real Housewives of New Jersey, New York, Atlanta, Orange County, and Houston ???!!!- New Jersey Season Finale, August 24th, 2010- 3.4 million viewers
Jersey Shores- Season Premiere, August 14th, 2010- 5.5 million viewers
The phrase that comes to my mind in regards to the above T.V. reality shows - Everything Should Be Noticed. Everything Should Be Noticed.
Stated twice for emphasis, ha ha.
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Personally, I am going to add Mrs. Mellon to my short list of the 10 most fascinating women who ever lived that I would like to invite to my 'Fantasy Dinner Party'. For my 'Fantasy Dinner Party' I can pull from any country, any century, any society. I haven't added to my 'Fantasy Dinner Party' list in probably 5 years. I wonder who I will have to 'bump' to make room for Bunny, hmmm?
I wonder if I could get Mrs. Mellon to host my 'Fantasy Dinner Party' at her Oak Springs estate, hmmm? Wouldn't that be lovely!
I wonder who would be on her 'Fantasy Dinner Party' invite list, hmmm? Suddenly I'm tinged with jealousy because she (Mrs. Mellon) has probably actually dined with everyone on her 'Fantasy Dinner Party' list and mine is yet only . . . a fantasy.
I think that I will seat Mrs. Mellon next to my dear 'Fantasy Dinner Party' BFF, Nicole de Vesian, or should I sit between them? After all, I have so much still to learn and it is my 'Fantasy Dinner Party.'
(For sure I'll seat Mrs.Kennedy next to Mrs. Mellon because they have been besties for so long and they will be able to get the conversation at the dinner table rolling.)
What am I thinking! I don't have to 'bump' anyone, I'll just arrange to pull up 2 more chairs. 12 is a lovely number for a 'Fantasy Dinner Party.'
Well, that leaves 1 more seat available; I wonder who I should invite, hmmm?
***Note - As I was sitting at 'The Boulevard Store' researching my 'Bunny Mellon' blog, a most charming woman comes in the store -'to have a look.' When I asked her if she knows who Bunny Mellon is, 'most charming woman' declared that she most certainly does know of her and that her nephew was best friends with Bunny's son in college.
"I'm planning a big splash for my 100th birthday also, I only have 8 years to go!" Most charming woman declared with a heartful laugh.
That is when I remembered the 6 degrees of separation theory. Me, . . . Most Charming Woman, . . Most Charming Woman's Nephew, . . ..Mrs. Mellon's Son, . . .Mrs. Mellon!!!
I made the Bunny connection in just 5 degrees!!!!!